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Mediate.com Recognized as a Top Attorney Directory for SEO!

(11/17/17)Mediate.com

Now celebrating our 22nd Year, Mediate.com has been recognized as a "Top 8" Attorney Directory by Rankings.io. Mediate.com is the overall 8th ranked attorney directory and the only mediation or ADR directory listed!

Marcy Einhorn

An Overview of the New York Rules of Professional Conduct in the Context of Mediation

(11/17/17)Marcy Einhorn

In the spirit of Honest Abe, New York again celebrated Mediation Settlement Day on October 18 this year with a host of activities designed to promote mediation as a means of resolving disputes without going to court.

John Lande

In Praise of (Good) Disagreements

(11/17/17)John Lande

As they say, if two people always agree, one of them is unnecessary.

Oliver Ross

Divorce Mediation: A Prototype for Positive Co-Parenting

(11/17/17)Oliver Ross

This article provides an approach to positive co-parenting while enduring a divorce. This involves constructive communication, renovating hostile environments, and having the mediator pose as a role model for a positive co-parenting experience.

Michael A. Zeytoonian

How Will the Way We Resolve Our Workplace and Family Business Disputes Impact our Thanksgiving Meal?

(11/17/17)Michael A. Zeytoonian

The opposition in disputes is not “the other side”, because I don’t see a workplace in terms of having two sides – employees vs. employers.

Larry Susskind

Universities are Underinvesting in Efforts to Improve the Quality of Teaching

(11/17/17)Larry Susskind

Given that universities have only two primary tasks -- teaching and research – they ought to be willing to invest as much in improving the quality of their teaching as they do in providing an elaborate infrastructure to support basic and applied research.

Elena Gurevich

Roundup: Legislation with Mediation or Arbitration…Maybe for the future?

(11/17/17)Elena Gurevich

Several bills have been introduced in the U.S. House of Representatives and the Senate this year that touch upon arbitration or mediation.

Cinnie Noble

Bringing Your Best Self to a Conflict

(11/17/17)Cinnie Noble

How is the best version of yourself different from the second best version of you?

Shirli Kirschner

Conciliation

(11/17/17)Shirli Kirschner

What are the origins of conciliation in Australia?

Bill Eddy

Dealing With Defensiveness In High Conflict People

(11/14/17)Bill Eddy

When most people think of high conflict people (HCPs), they think of bad behavior. The goal seems to be to get them to STOP their bad behavior, by verbally motivating them to have insights into how bad they are acting. However, the high conflict behavior of HCPs is not driven by logic and self-awareness.

Robert Mnookin

Interview with Robert Mnookin

(11/13/17)Robert Mnookin

This is the complete interview by Robert Benjamin with Robert Mnookin, faculty at the Harvard Negotiation Project, filmed as part of Mediate.com's 'Views from the Eye of the Storm' Series.

Michael Leathes

Lawyer Negotiation: Theory, Practice & Law - Book Review

(11/10/17)Michael Leathes

This is a review of the book Lawyer Negotiation: Theory, Practice and Law, by Jay Folberg and Dwight Golann.

Gabor Farkas

The Case for a Fresh Approach to Commercial Cross-Border Mediation

(11/10/17)Gabor Farkas

In a world where international commerce and cultural exchanges continuously progresses, disputes are unavoidable. Solving these cross-jurisdictional disputes through litigation is painfully long.

Daniel Ben-Zvi

It Happened in Mediation - Believe It or Not

(11/10/17)Daniel Ben-Zvi, Michael Young

The authors have peeled back the protective cloak of confidentiality just enough to provide a glimpse of the wild, the unpredictable, and the utterly preposterous things that have happened in real mediations.

Tammy Lenski

The Question That Brings Hamster Wheel Debates to a Standstill

(11/10/17)Tammy Lenski

Some debates, arguments, and bickering go on and on, without leading anywhere (except to more frustration).

Cinnie Noble

Crying Your Eyes Out

(11/10/17)Cinnie Noble

Recently a conflict management coaching client told me she had “cried her eyes out” about a dispute she is having with a co-worker.

Phyllis Pollack

I Apologize For Suggesting It !

(11/10/17)Phyllis Pollack

Mediations and their participants never cease to amaze me.

Jennifer Shack

Courts and Attorneys Aren’t Doing Enough to Inform Litigants about Their ADR Options

(11/10/17)Jennifer Shack

Donna Shestowsky at UC Davis School of Law has been researching the relationship between litigants and court ADR programs for quite a while.

Peter T. Coleman

Addressing Injustice: Why and How Do People Seek Justice?

(11/06/17)Peter T. Coleman

10 big ideas on peace and justice from the career of Morton Deutsch - this is piece 7 which focuses on justice.

Mary Austin

‘Think Like a Mediator’ Conflict Resolution Program at Rikers Island

(11/06/17)Mary Austin, Richard Brewster, Nina Martinez, Hillary Zilz

The article describes the authors’ experience teaching a six session course called “Think Like a Mediator” on conflict resolution to inmates at the women’s jail facility (the Rose M. Singer Center) at Rikers Island in New York City.

F. Peter Phillips

Singapore: The Hub of International Commercial Dispute Resolution

(11/06/17)F. Peter Phillips

In addition to the usual high level of discourse and the unparalleled opportunity to meet new friends and keep the old, this particular Forum offered the additional opportunity to reassess the extraordinary richness of Singapore as a world center for international commerce and commercial dispute resolution.

Shirli Kirschner

ADR in the Regulation of Aged Care

(11/06/17)Shirli Kirschner

The role of ADR in the aged care sector has a chequered history with regulatory bodies and dispute resolution processes frequently changing in response to public concerns and budgetary considerations.

Dan Simon

The Only Impartial Direction is Up

(11/06/17)Dan Simon

Here’s me trying to persuade another mediator that she’s not being impartial if settlement is her goal. I’m not going to be able to persuade her, but what do you think?

Tammy Lenski

Go Back to the Future to Discover How Your Agreement Could Fail

(11/06/17)Tammy Lenski

When we’ve put in effort to solve a problem, we want our solution, decision, or agreement to have every chance at long-run success.

Chip Rose

Interview with Chip Rose

(10/31/17)Chip Rose

This is the complete interview by Robert Benjamin with Chip Rose, a national leader in the fields of divorce mediation and collaborative practice, filmed as part of Mediate.com's 'Views from the Eye of the Storm' Video Series.

Michael Jacobs

The One That Got Away

(10/27/17)Michael Jacobs

Mediation is great teacher.

Denisha Shah

Mediation Creates and Spreads Infinite Love

(10/27/17)Denisha Shah

The article is about general foundations and principles of mediation in all aspects (e.g. family, LGBT, divorce, commercial, global, workplace, pet mediation, child custody) as it explores the depth and truth of multi-dimensions in relationships and love.

Pete Desrochers

Negotiation - Part 7

(10/27/17)Pete Desrochers

Many incorrectly associate “active listening” with aggressive listening, where we constantly search for a slip up or error upon which we can pounce.

Will Schoder

Mr. Rogers and the Power of Persuasion - Video

(10/27/17)Will Schoder

This video discusses the history of arguing and ways to make it more effective.

Ronald S. Kraybill

What Not to Say After Violence

(10/27/17)Ronald S. Kraybill

An Important Choice: What to Do and Say After Violence?

Meredith Richardson

When Your Game Face Makes You Out of Touch With Your Emotions

(10/27/17)Meredith Richardson

What would help to process what is going on for you and help you to make any conscious changes?

Joe Markowitz

Bidding Against Yourself

(10/27/17)Joe Markowitz

I had a chance to hear William Ury, best-known as co-author of Getting to Yes, speak this weekend at the SCMA fall conference. One of the things he talked about was seeing yourself as your own worst enemy in a negotiation.

Are You Really Ready for Divorce? The 8 Questions You Need to Ask

(10/24/17)Bruce Derman, Wendy Gregson

This article outlines what couples need to do in order to face the numerous dilemmas that are inherent in divorce. If people have not resolved their dilemmas before the divorce, they go through the process trying to manage their fear in different ways by hiding their doubt, responsibility; vulnerability, or dependency.

Lee Jay Berman

13 Tools for Resolving Conflict in the Workplace, with Customers and in Life

(10/23/17)Lee Jay Berman

Conflict happens. It is inevitable. It is going to happen whenever you have people with different expectations. Here are some tools for avoiding and resolving disputes in the early stages, before they become full-blown conflicts.

Jay Folberg

Interview with Jay Folberg

(10/23/17)Jay Folberg

This is the complete interview by Robert Benjamin with Jay Folberg filmed as part of Mediate.com's 'Views from the Eye of the Storm' Video Series.

Peter T. Coleman

A Grand Theory of Personality and Environment

(10/23/17)Peter T. Coleman

Ten big ideas on peace and justice from the career of Morton Deutsch. This is article six, focusing on social innovation.

Cinnie Noble

Realizing Our Professional Goals

(10/23/17)Cinnie Noble

It is trite to say, but true, that remaining focused on our career destinations – where we want to go and who we want to be when we arrive – requires commitment to the journey.

Lorraine Segal

The Kindness of Strangers—Wildfires, Empathy, and Conflict

(10/23/17)Lorraine Segal

Kindness and empathy can defuse conflict at work, or disagreements even in the midst of disasters.

Beth Graham

Legal Battle Continues After Arbitrator Upholds Suspension of Dallas Cowboys Running Back

(10/23/17)Beth Graham

the NFL filed a motion to confirm the arbitrator’s decision in the Southern District of New York – the same court that upheld Tom Brady’s suspension following the so-called “Deflategate” controversy. 

Jacqueline Burnett-Brown

Family Counseling to Resolve Conflict?

(10/23/17)Jacqueline Burnett-Brown

If you are a member of a family, whether it is as father, mother, child, sibling or an extended member, there will be conflict.

Phyllis Pollack

Micro-Inequities

(10/23/17)Phyllis Pollack

One of the unexpected obligations as a lecturer in law at a major university is that I must participate in harassment prevention training. One topic caught my attention although it was barely mentioned: micro-affirmations.

Nina Meierding

Interview with Nina Meierding

(10/17/17)Nina Meierding

This is the complete interview by Robert Benjamin with Nina Meierding filmed as part of Mediate.com's 'Views from the Eye of the Storm' Video Series.

Michael P. Carbone

Mediation Strategies: A Lawyer’s Guide To Successful Negotiation

(10/17/17)Michael P. Carbone

Every successful negotiation requires that you have a sound strategy. In this article I will explain the steps that I believe you should follow when developing a mediation strategy.

Alia Ismail

Challenges to Starting an American Middle-Eastern Cross-Border Mediation Center

(10/13/17)Alia Ismail

Starting a cross-borders mediation center between the US and the Middle East requires interacting with professionals on both continents. Despite appearing differences within both cultures, it seems when programmed patterns are utilized, and no longer serve, professionals shift their behaviors to the total opposite.

Larry Gaughan

What ADR Professionals Can Learn from Litigating Divorce Lawyers

(10/13/17)Larry Gaughan

Well over 90% of all divorce cases are resolved by agreements, but there are two divergent methods for negotiating those agreements.

Shirli Kirschner

Bio-physiology and DR

(10/13/17)Shirli Kirschner

Studies of the human response to conflict have confirmed that at the level of our body the response is the same as the human response to stress.

F. Peter Phillips

Prevalence of Employment Arbitration is Measured

(10/13/17)F. Peter Phillips

Two recently released survey reports measure the pervasive use of arbitration to resolve workplace disputes.

Tammy Lenski

Difficult Conversations Deplete the Brain’s “Processing Power”

(10/13/17)Tammy Lenski

Working memory is like a mental sticky note, cognitive workspace for holding and processing information relevant to whatever we’re doing or about to do.

Cinnie Noble

Changing Your Direction in Conflict

(10/13/17)Cinnie Noble

What insight do you have into your conflict?

Peter T. Coleman

How Conflict Is Like Sex

(10/06/17)Peter T. Coleman

Another big idea on peace and justice from the career of Morton Deutsch.

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