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What’s So Funny ‘Bout Peace, Love And Understanding?  Thoughts On Why We’re Not Getting To Yes author.

What’s So Funny ‘Bout Peace, Love And Understanding? Thoughts On Why We’re Not Getting To Yes

Respected dispute resolution scholar and pioneer Carrie Menkel-Meadow recently posed an important question for our field in her essay "Why...

By Diane J. Levin
No Way Out: Negotiation And The Prisoner’s Dilemma author.

No Way Out: Negotiation And The Prisoner’s Dilemma

The prisoner's dilemma is often expressed as a game played on a computer but we see the ramifications of the...

By Charles B. Parselle
AACCRS: The Six Levers Of Influence author.

AACCRS: The Six Levers Of Influence

The book to read on this subject is Cialdini’s “Principles of Persuasion.” It identifies six principles of persuasion: Affinity (liking),...

By Charles B. Parselle
Everyday Conflict Management: Tips for Transforming Conflict author.

Everyday Conflict Management: Tips for Transforming Conflict

When you think of the word “conflict” what comes to mind? Many would say disagreements, arguing, maybe even fighting and...

By Anita Vestal
Explain Yourself! An Anatomy of Explanations author.

Explain Yourself! An Anatomy of Explanations

Tell me... Why This is the book I never read These are the words I never said This is the...

By Victoria Pynchon
Book Review: The Negotiator’s Fieldbook author.

Book Review: The Negotiator’s Fieldbook

Book Review: Andrea Kupfer Schneider and Christopher Honeyman, Editors, The Negotiator’s Fieldbook: The Desk Reference for the Experienced Negotiator (ABA...

By Joe Epstein
Get To The Bottom Line! author.

Get To The Bottom Line!

"Man does not live by words alone, despite the fact that sometimes he has to eat them." —Adlai Stevenson In...

By Edward P. Ahrens
Becoming a Conflict Competent Leader author.

Becoming a Conflict Competent Leader

As part of our work at the Leadership Development Institute at Eckerd College (LDI), a network associate of the renowned...

By Craig Runde, Tim Flanagan
Finesse the Impasse by Changing the Deal – Negotiation Wisdom from Lou Meisinger author.

Finesse the Impasse by Changing the Deal – Negotiation Wisdom from Lou Meisinger

Former Executive Vice-President and General Counsel to The Walt Disney Company, entertainment law heavy-weight Lou Meisinger is not only breathing...

By Victoria Pynchon

Interpersonal Deception Theory: Ten Lessons for Negotiators

Introduction Believe me -- one of the few universal truths in life is that everybody lies. Lying is not necessarily...

By James Hearn
The ‘Truthiness’ Virus Has Infected The Conflict Management Field author.

The ‘Truthiness’ Virus Has Infected The Conflict Management Field

‘Truthiness’--- spell check does not yet recognize the word--- is that quality of a statement, or pontification, that because it...

By Robert Benjamin
What Makes a Great Negotiator author.

What Makes a Great Negotiator

According to Harvard Business School Professor Michael Watkins' new book Breakthrough International Negotiations truly great negotiators operate on seven basic...

By Victoria Pynchon
Beyond Reason:  Using Emotions As You Negotiate (Book Review) author.

Beyond Reason: Using Emotions As You Negotiate (Book Review)

Beyond Reason: Using Emotions As You Negotiate By Roger Fisher And Daniel Shapiro 246 Pp. The Penguin Group Dealing with...

By Jan Frankel Schau
Improvisational Negotiation (Book Review) author.

Improvisational Negotiation (Book Review)

Jeff Krivis has been a successful commercial mediator in the greater Los Angeles CA area for fifteen years. He is...

By Jeffrey Krivis, Rick Russell

Five Findings from Interpersonal Deception Theory that Every Negotiator Should Know

Now Cain said to his brother Abel, Let’s go out to the field.” And while they were in the field...

By Reed Leverton
Hunting for Deception in Mediation – Winning Cases by Understanding Body Language author.

Hunting for Deception in Mediation – Winning Cases by Understanding Body Language

Deception. . . A Reality of Mediation Although few will admit to it, there is no doubt that deception plays...

By Jeffrey Krivis, Mariam Zadeh
Book Review:  Improvisational Negotiation:  A Mediator’s Stories of Conflict About Love, Money, Anger – and the Strategies that Resolved Them author.

Book Review: Improvisational Negotiation: A Mediator’s Stories of Conflict About Love, Money, Anger – and the Strategies that Resolved Them

With his new book, Improvisational Negotiation, Jeff Krivis reveals himself as one of the top storytellers in the mediation profession...

By Jeffrey Krivis, Joe Epstein
Book Review: Improvisational Negotiation by Jeffrey Krivis author.

Book Review: Improvisational Negotiation by Jeffrey Krivis

This article was originally published in "The Negotiator Magazine" which has kindly granted Mediate.com permission to republish.This is a book...

By Jeffrey Krivis, John D. Baker
It’s The Principle, Damn It! author.

It’s The Principle, Damn It!

"You can't learn too soon that the most useful thing about a principle is that it can always be sacrificed...

By Edward P. Ahrens
Film Review: Thank You For Smoking Offers An Advanced Tutorial in Negotiation Strategies and Ethics author.

Film Review: Thank You For Smoking Offers An Advanced Tutorial in Negotiation Strategies and Ethics

“And God said unto Adam, ‘Of the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil,’ thou shalt not eat,’ or something...

By Robert Benjamin
Negotiation: The Tension Between Doubt And Certainty author.

Negotiation: The Tension Between Doubt And Certainty

Every mediated negotiation oscillates between doubt and certainty. Parties seek certainty even though often they are besieged by doubts. People...

By Charles B. Parselle
Should We Negotiate with Hamas?  Interview with Former Israeli Foreign Minister Shlomo Ben-Ami author.

Should We Negotiate with Hamas? Interview with Former Israeli Foreign Minister Shlomo Ben-Ami

Mediate.com Interviews February 24, 2006 This is an interview with former Israeli Foreign Minister Shlomo Ben-Ami on negotiating with Hamas...

By Robert Benjamin
Metaphors for Divorce Mediations and Negotiations author.

Metaphors for Divorce Mediations and Negotiations

Language conveys much more than the specific meanings of chosen words. Language conveys attitudes, mind-sets and perspectives. It both influences...

By Sharon Lowenstein
Closure author.

Closure

Closure represents the triumph of reality over illusion; recognition that things are the way they are, not the way we...

By Charles B. Parselle
Negotiations Within Negotiation author.

Negotiations Within Negotiation

If only two persons attend a mediation and they are both have authority to settle, then only three negotiations take...

By Charles B. Parselle
Conflict Resolution Toolbox: Introduction author.

Conflict Resolution Toolbox: Introduction

Published online with permission of Wiley Publishers Read Jon Linden's review of this book.INTRODUCTION Imagine for a moment that you...

By Gary T. Furlong
Common Ground: To take the intimidation out of mediation, experts advise looking for a positive perspective author.

Common Ground: To take the intimidation out of mediation, experts advise looking for a positive perspective

The X factor in mediation is the ability to influence the other side to pay more or take less. Finding...

By Jeffrey Krivis, Mariam Zadeh
Keeping Your Cool: The Power of Persuasion in Mediation author.

Keeping Your Cool: The Power of Persuasion in Mediation

Employment disputes often degenerate into highly charged, contentious and emotional conduct by the participants during each step of the litigation...

By Myer J. Sankary
The Mediator as Moralist Bully author.

The Mediator as Moralist Bully

This article originally appeared in edited form in ‘Peripheral Vision’, a regular appearing column in Family Mediation News, the Family...

By Robert Benjamin
Qualities of a Good Mediator and the Lessons New Mediators Learn author.

Qualities of a Good Mediator and the Lessons New Mediators Learn

First published: ST. LOUIS LAWYER, August 7, 2002, at 10A." In mid-June, the University of Missouri-Columbia School of Law held...

By Paula M. Young Young

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