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Ken Cloke – Mediate.com Great Reads Book Club

Ken Cloke, speaking about his upcoming book “The Magic of Mediation” interviewed by Clare Fowler as part of the Mediate.com Great Reads Book Club – November 10, 2023

Here is the Book Club invitation:

“On November 10th we are hosting our next “Great Reads” book club event with the great Ken Cloke discussing his new book “The Magic in Mediation: A Search for Symmetries, Metaphors and Scale-Free Practices.”

Anyone who has mediated is likely to have experienced the magic of mediation, and would very much like to do so again. But if asked where this magic came from, how it happened, what it consisted of, and how they might replicate it, most would be hard pressed to answer.

To identify the sources of magic in mediation, we need to learn by metaphor from other disciplines and professions, and search for ways of translating successful small-scale techniques into scale-free methodologies that can be applied to mid- and large-scale conflicts.

We are actively creating wars, pandemics, and environmental conflicts that cannot be resolved or prevented except globally, collaboratively, and meditatively, using scaled-up, higher order dispute resolution skills. This is the core mission and calling of conflict resolvers around the world.

And as these problems and conflicts have no borders, neither should our efforts to resolve them. Magic happens not only because of what we do, but who we are; in spite of everything the parties have said and done to each other, all their anguish and pain and trauma and loss, all their failed efforts and hopelessness. Why? Because we know, in our minds and hearts that magic is possible, and are ready to step into their hatred and fear and darkness and uncertainty, to search for it there.

In mediation, we allow ourselves, for a moment, to become the magic they are seeking, merely because they do not yet understand that the magic is already inside and between them.”

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Kenneth Cloke

Kenneth Cloke is Director of the Center for Dispute Resolution and a mediator, arbitrator, consultant and trainer, specializing in resolving complex multi-party conflicts internationally and in designing conflict resolution systems for organizations. Ken is a nationally recognized speaker and leader in the field of conflict resolution, and a published author… MORE >

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Clare Fowler

Clare Fowler is Executive Vice-President and Managing Editor at Mediate.com, as well as a mediator and trainer. Clare received her Master's of Dispute Resolution from the Straus Institute for Dispute Resolution at the Pepperdine University School of Law and her Doctorate in Organizational Leadership, focused on reducing workplace conflicts, from Pepperdine… MORE >

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