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Arthur Pressman

How the Mediator Gains the Parties’ Trust

(11/19/18)Arthur Pressman

The first step in gaining mediation parties' trust is demonstrating mastery over the process.

Steven Goldman

Pump the Brakes

(11/16/18)Steven Goldman

The ability to resolve conflicts with one another is a critical life skill, especially in today’s challenging world.

Katherine Graham

When Did Bullying Stop Being Something that Only Happened in the Playground?

(11/16/18)Katherine Graham

It's Anti-Bullying Week; and bullying is now just as much synonymous with workplaces as with problems at school.

Kenneth Cloke

Interview with Ken Cloke

(11/15/18)Kenneth Cloke

This is the complete interview by Robert Benjamin with Ken Cloke, author and Founder of Mediators Beyond Borders, filmed as part of Mediate.com's 'Views from the Eye of the Storm' Video Series.

Steven Bennett

Mediation Myths: Barriers to the Use of Mediation

(11/12/18)Steven Bennett

Despite a record of success, in some quarters mediation continues to receive skeptical treatment as an unnecessary step in dispute resolution.

Darrell Puls

Scorched Earth Clients: Mediating with High Conflict People

(11/12/18)Darrell Puls

You have met them if you have been mediating for any length of time: High Conflict People.

Laura Tarcea

Zealous Advocacy Can Kill

(11/12/18)Laura Tarcea

His divorce was going really badly: aggressive lawyers on both sides, court battles and blame-ridden affidavits!

Will Schoder

Mr. Rogers and the Power of Persuasion - Video

(11/07/18)Will Schoder

This video discusses the history of arguing and ways to make it more effective.

Sarah Gross

Family Feud? Use Eldercaring Coordination for High Conflict in Eldercare

(11/01/18)Sarah Gross

This article distinguishes elder mediation and eldercaring coordination, and discusses the benefits of eldercaring coordination for high-conflict cases.

Laurie Israel

Mediator as Judge

(11/01/18)Laurie Israel

When trained as a mediator, the first thing I learned was that mediation is a client-driven process.

Oran Kaufman

What Should You Ask Your Mediator at the Initial Session?

(11/01/18)Oran Kaufman

What I offer in this article is some thoughts and ideas of questions that may be helpful to ask at your initial consultation with your mediator.

John Fiske

Don’t Dread Divorces this December

(10/30/18)John Fiske

Thanks to the 2017 federal Tax Cuts and Jobs Act of 2017, (“TCAJA”), divorce lawyers and mediators know that December will be a busy time and some of us may be working right up to the close of the courthouse on Monday, December 31st.

Peter Adler

Bringing Down a Giraffe

(10/30/18)Peter Adler

Each of the described four impulses gives rise to tensions in negotiation: the need to compete and claim, the impulse to cooperate and find common ground, the drive for pragmatic and technically competent solutions, and the push for a moral basis in solution-making.

Muhammed Rafeeque

Two Points: Detrimental to any Mediation Process

(10/26/18)Muhammed Rafeeque

The post is about TWO points which may go against the Mediation Process in India: (i) A constant persuasion of Mediator on either parties would have opposite effect.

Colin Rule

Empathy

(10/26/18)Colin Rule

I travel all the time for my job--and part of the traveling experience is vulnerability.

Amy Sereday

An Ounce of Prevention

(10/26/18)Amy Sereday

"An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure": It is true about many things in life, but it is particularly true when it comes to conflict.

Dakota Murphey

What is Child-Inclusive Mediation?

(10/26/18)Dakota Murphey

If you are a parent going through separation or divorce it is highly likely you are worried about the effect it will have on your children.

Michael Aurit

Jim Melamed Selected For First APFM Outstanding Mediator Award

(10/24/18)Michael Aurit, Jim Melamed

After a nominations process open to all Academy of Professional Family Mediators (APFM) members, Jim Melamed, Mediate.com CEO, was selected to receive APFM's first "Outstanding Professional Family Mediator Award." The award was presented to Jim at the recent 2018 APFM Conference in San Diego.

Jonathan Rodrigues

The Mediation Advocate’s Alphabet

(10/19/18)Jonathan Rodrigues

From limited experiences, learning from mistakes, compliments from clients, advise from mentors and suggestions from peers, here is a guidebook with some cheat codes for any amateur lawyer looking to rehearse before a Mediation.

Diane Kramer

10 Do’s and Don’ts of Successful Co-Parenting After Divorce

(10/19/18)Diane Kramer

Are you struggling with Co-Parenting after divorce? If you are, it is no surprise.

Virginia Colin

APFM: The Dream, Progress to Date, and New Goals

(10/12/18)Virginia Colin

In March 2012, eleven amazing people announced the creation of the Academy of Professional Family Mediators. They had big dreams and grand expectations. Let’s look at how far we have come and where we may go.

Peter Adler

Weapons and Sports Agents

(10/12/18)Peter Adler

Life imitates art, art imitates life, and both reveal deeper patterns.

Nigel Dunlop

Mediation Power Imbalances: Weighing the Arguments

(10/12/18)Nigel Dunlop

It is commonly said that power imbalances in mediation render it unfair.

Ben Hartwig

What Do Marriage Counselors and Mediators Do?

(10/12/18)Ben Hartwig

There is a big difference between marriage counselors and mediators, and each is specific to the condition of a relationship.

Chip Rose

Interview with Chip Rose

(10/10/18)Chip Rose

This is the complete interview by Robert Benjamin with Chip Rose, a national leader in the fields of divorce mediation and collaborative practice, filmed as part of Mediate.com's 'Views from the Eye of the Storm' Video Series.

Donald T. Saposnek

Book Review: The Master Agreement by Jay Bultz

(10/08/18)Donald T. Saposnek

'The Master Agreement', now in its Second Edition, offers a comprehensive manual of issues, clauses and phrases for use in drafting Marital Settlement Agreements. This book is unique, of very high quality, will save you time, and elevate the quality of your drafting.

Michelle Brenner

Mediation – Engaging the Rhythm of Polyvagal Regulation

(10/05/18)Michelle Brenner

What do garden snails, lizards and humans all have in common?

Like the Fireflies Generating Light

(10/05/18)María Victoria Marun, Maria Eugenia Sole

It is currently common to use expressions such as "polarization" or "crack" to describe the attitudes with which the inhabitants, politicians and governments in different countries raise or debate their problems.

Como Las Luciernagas Generando Luz - en espanol

(10/05/18)Maria Victoria Marun, Maria Eugenia Sole

Actualmente es común usar expresiones como "polarización" o "grieta" para describir las actitudes con las que los habitantes, políticos y gobiernos de diferentes países plantean o debaten sus problemas.

Ryan Compton

Family Mediation and Domestic Abuse

(10/05/18)Ryan Compton

Mediation in Worcester, Gloucester and the surrounding areas is increasingly the default option when it comes to family dispute resolution.

Maxine Baker-Jackson

Interview with Maxine Baker-Jackson

(10/02/18)Maxine Baker-Jackson

This is the complete interview by Robert Benjamin with Maxine Baker-Jackson, former Director and Mediator, Los Angeles County Superior Court, Dependency Court, filmed as part of Mediate.com's 'Views from the Eye of the Storm' Video Series.

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