Erin Birt, JD, CADC
Restorative Divorce® Mediator & Attorney:
Revolutionizing divorce for families who value clarity, respect, and a better future for their children.
With over 20 years of experience as a family law attorney, mediator, and Certified Alcohol and Drug Counselor (CADC), I specialize in guiding families through divorce with compassion, clarity, and practicality. As the creator of the Restorative Divorce® process, I help families minimize court involvement and resolve conflicts constructively, focusing on tailored solutions that prioritize the needs of children and parents alike.
My practice is built on the belief that divorce doesn’t have to be a battle—it can be an opportunity to redefine your family’s future with respect and mutual understanding.
Services Offered
- Parenting Mediation: Develop parenting plans that prioritize your children’s well-being.
- Financial Mediation: Resolve financial disputes with clear, practical solutions.
- Resolution-Focused Divorce: Achieve out-of-court resolutions tailored to your family’s unique needs.
- Co-Parenting Skills Development: Improve communication and collaboration for a smoother transition.
Each service is designed to guide families toward a positive resolution while reducing stress and uncertainty.
Why Choose Me?
- 20+ Years of Family Law Experience: Expertise in family law and counseling to help navigate complex situations.
- Restorative Divorce® Process: A trademarked method designed to reduce conflict and court involvement.
- Child-Centered Approach: Solutions that prioritize your children’s emotional and financial well-being.
- Compassionate, Practical Guidance: Combining empathy with actionable advice to help you move forward confidently.
Approach to Mediation
My mediation process emphasizes tailored guidance for individuals or couples. I offer flexible options to meet separately or jointly, ensuring every client feels heard and respected. My goal is to reduce stress and help you reach resolutions that benefit your family’s future.
Client Reflections
“Erin’s guidance during our mediation process was invaluable. She helped us find common ground and focus on what mattered most—our children.”
“Erin’s Restorative Divorce® approach was the calm we needed during a difficult time. We are grateful for her expertise and compassion.”
Contact Erin
Reach out today to learn how I can guide you toward a resolution-focused path forward.
ADR Experience
I have been a mediator since 2004, helping families resolve conflicts with practical, efficient, and respectful solutions. Over the course of my career, I have successfully mediated 600+ matters, specializing in parenting and divorce mediation. My approach emphasizes minimizing court involvement while addressing the unique needs of each family.
Key Areas of Expertise
- Mediation: Crafting child-centered parenting plans that promote cooperation and long-term stability. Facilitating equitable financial resolutions, including asset division, spousal maintenance, and child support.
- Resolution-Focused Divorce: Utilizing the Restorative Divorce® process to help families transition with clarity and respect.
- Co-Parenting Skills Development: Assisting parents in building effective communication strategies for smoother collaboration.
Professional Highlights
- Restorative Divorce® Creator: Developed and trademarked a mediation process focused on minimizing conflict and empowering families to work toward positive resolutions.
- Certified Alcohol and Drug Counselor (CADC): Brings a unique perspective to cases involving substance use or emotional challenges, ensuring sensitive and effective mediation strategies.
- Extensive Courtroom Knowledge: With over 20 years of family law experience, I understand the complexities of litigation, which informs my ability to guide families toward out-of-court resolutions.
Notable Achievements
- Successfully mediated complex parenting and financial disputes, including high-conflict cases.
- Recognized for balancing compassion and practicality in ADR settings.
- Committed to ongoing professional development in family mediation and conflict resolution techniques.
Commitment to ADR
My mission is to provide families with a supportive, respectful environment to address disputes and find sustainable solutions. I am:
- A member and board member of the Mediation Council of Illinois.
- A mediation skills trainer for various Illinois bar associations and guest trainer at the Mosten Guthrie Mediation Training.
- Dedicated to achieving 40+ hours of continuing education each year in family law, divorce mediation, and substance abuse counseling.
Whether through in-person or virtual mediation sessions, I focus on helping clients move forward with confidence and clarity.
Approach
At the heart of my practice is the Restorative Divorce® process, a trademarked approach designed to minimize court involvement and foster constructive solutions for families navigating divorce. This process combines my legal expertise with a family-centered perspective to address both the emotional and practical aspects of separation.
How Restorative Divorce® Works:
- Individualized Guidance: Each family’s needs are unique, and I tailor mediation sessions to address specific parenting, financial, and emotional goals.
- Conflict De-Escalation: By creating a supportive environment, I help families navigate difficult conversations with respect and clarity, ensuring that all voices are heard.
- Future-Focused Resolutions: The process emphasizes creating agreements that are practical, equitable, and sustainable for the long term.
Core Principles of Restorative Divorce®:
- Clarity: Clear communication and step-by-step guidance help families reduce uncertainty and stress.
- Respect: Sessions are designed to foster mutual respect and understanding, even in challenging circumstances.
- Efficiency: The process streamlines decision-making, saving time and resources compared to court litigation.
- Child-Centered Solutions: Prioritizing the well-being of children ensures agreements that promote stability and long-term success.
A Better Way Forward:
With over 20 years of experience, I have seen firsthand the toll traditional litigation can take on families. The Restorative Divorce® process offers an alternative—a practical and compassionate way to address disputes, preserve relationships, and create a positive foundation for the future.
Whether through virtual or in-person mediation, my approach focuses on guiding families toward resolutions that meet their unique needs and empower them to move forward with confidence.
Education
- Juris Doctor (JD)
DePaul University College of Law
Graduated in 2003, focusing on family law and alternative dispute resolution.
- Bachelor of Arts (BA) in Medical Anthropology
Case Western Reserve University
Graduated in 2000, studying the intersection of culture, health, and human behavior.
- Certified Alcohol and Drug Counselor (CADC)
College of DuPage
Completed certification in 2010, providing specialized skills to support clients facing substance-related challenges.
- Mediation Training
College of DuPage
Completed comprehensive mediation training in 2004, equipping me to facilitate effective conflict resolution.
Areas Of Practice
- Adult Family
- Divorce (all issues)
- Divorce (parenting)
- Family
- LGBTQ
- Marital Mediation
- Online Family/Divorce
- Prenuptial
Additional Services
- Advanced Mediation Trainer
- Collaborative Professional
- Conflict Coach
- Counselor
- Mediating Lawyer
- Mediation Consultant
- Mediation Trainer
- Mediator-Arbitrator
- Parenting Coordinator
- Representational Lawyer
Fees and Provisos
Initial Meeting
- $400 Planning Session with Individual or Couple (up to 1 hour via Zoom).
- Includes an overview of your family’s needs and a roadmap for mediation.
- The fee is credited if a flat-fee option is selected.
Mediation Fees
- Flat Fee Options: Basic, Standard, and Premium tailored to your family’s needs.
- Hourly Rate Options: $400 p/hr and security retainer for additional sessions or custom services.
- Flexible Payment Options: Flat fees and retainers can be financed with ClientCredit.
Provisos
- Sessions are conducted virtually or in-person for convenience and privacy.
- Participation is voluntary and requires both parties’ willingness to engage.
- Mediation is not legal representation or therapy but a guided resolution process.
ADR Training
- Initial 40-hour Mediation Training at College of DuPage in 2004 with trainers Brigid Duffield and Danuta McDaniel
- 12 hours Mosten Guthrie Advanced Mediation Training 2021
- 2.5 hours DCBA Domestic Relations Mediation Training 2016
- 4 hours Mediation Council of Illinois Training 2008
- 2.25 hours DCBA Domestic Relations Mediation Training 2021
- 1.75 hours DCBA Mediation Training - Do's and Don'ts of Mediation 2021 (Presenter)
- 2 hours DCBA Family Law Mediation Training 2014
- 2 hours DCBA Mediation Training for Domestic Relations 2012
- 17 hours International Academy of Collaborative Professionals Virtual Forum (Family Law/ADR): Beacon When We're Apart 2021
- 10 hours Association of Family and Conciliation Courts Parenting Coordination/ADR Training 2022
- 16 hours CoParenting Specialist/ADR Training Mosten Guthrie Academy 2024
- 1 hour DCBA ADR 101: Everything You Want to Know About Alternative Dispute Resolution but Are Afraid to Ask 2021
- 10 hours KCBA Domestic Relations/Guardian ad Litem/ADR Training 2022
- 10 hours DCBA Domestic Relations/Guardian ad Litem/ADR Training 2024
- 6 Hours Me, Myself and AI Training with Mediate.com and Mediation Council of Illinois 2023
Professional Associations
- DuPage County Bar Association
- Kane County Bar Association
- Illinois State Bar Association
- Mediation Council of Illinois
- Illinois Counseling Association
- NAADAC, Association for Addiction Professionals
- Illinois Alcohol and Other Drug Abuse Professional Certification Association, Inc.
- International Academy of Collaborative Professionals
- Collaborative Practice Professionals of Illinois
- Association of Family and Conciliation Courts
Publications & Presentations
- Birt, Erin. Rudy & Ali: A Listening Ear & A Cozy Corner. Palmetto Publishing, 2025. A child-centered narrative addressing emotional resilience during divorce, including a parent resource section grounded in restorative divorce practices and mediation principles.
- Birt, Erin. 90-Day Restorative Divorce® Workbook. Restorative Divorce® Press, 2025. This workbook provides structured weekly exercises, client education and guided reflection topics supporting non-litigation resolution.
- The Kitchen Table Divorce®: Your Plan to a DIY Divorce with Confidence and Clarity (Self-Published, 2025).
- Birt, Erin. "How Restorative Justice Circles Enhance Client-Focused Mediation in Restorative Divorce." Birt Family Law, January 25, 2025, https://www.birtlaw.com/how-restorative-justice-circles-enhance-client-focused-mediation-in-restorative-divorce.
- The Journal of the DuPage County Bar Association, Vol. 30 (2017-18) The Implications of Balanced and Restorative Justice for Juveniles in Illinois by Erin Birt
- The Journal of the DuPage County Bar Association, Vol. 26 (2013-14) The Changing Role of the Tender Years Doctrine: Gender Bias, Parenthood, and Illinois Law by Erin Birt and Elizabeth Chacko.