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New Book From Bernie Mayer

Take a peek inside Bernie Mayer’s brand new book with this free chapter.

Staying with Conflict offers a new paradigm for dealing with long-term disputes: When dealing with enduring conflict, move past the idea of how quickly you can resolve the conflict and instead focus on how you can help people prepare to engage with an issue over time. By adopting a long-term approach, new avenues of intervention become apparent.Filled with illustrative examples from a broad variety of conflicts, from the interpersonal to the international, Staying with Conflict offers hope for dealing with our struggles as social beings”

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Geoff Sharp

Geoff Sharp is a Commercial Mediator from Wellington, New Zealand. Geoff works in the Asia Pacific region, including New Zealand, Malaysia, Thailand and Pacific Islands. He is a mediator resolving business problems. He is a fellow of the International Academy of Mediators and mediates complex and hotly debated litigation covering… MORE >

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