Self-Reflection Following A Mediation

Self-Reflection Following A Mediation

• Was my Opening Statement thorough?
• How did the Story Telling go?
• How did the Understanding phase go?
• Techniques used during Solutions?        
• Was I facilitative in all that I did?
• Did my judgments enter the process?                                                           
• What thoughts guided my actions?
• Did I follow my mediation philosophy?
• Did I acknowledge emotions & equality?
• Did I encourage the parties’ expressions?
• Did I pursue the whys, interests?
• How did I respond to pushed buttons?
• Was I comfortable responding to needs?
• How was my reframing?
• Was the resolution totally the participants?
• Were tasks & relationships kept separate?
• Was I caring and empathetic toward the participants and their concepts? 
• Was I perceived as co-partial?
• Did I foster shared respect among all?
• Was the setting of support & legitimacy?
• Did I apply BATNA/WATNA?
• Is the agreement clearly enforceable?
• Did the agreement include likely healing?
• What am I doing for my own well-being?
• What resources am I using to expand my skills?

                       

Charlie Young

Charlie Young was raised and educated in MA, and was ordained a priest for the Baker City Oregon Diocese.  Charlie served as a priest in the Baker diocese from 1958 to 1977 and was an assistant pastor and pastor and the Director of the Office of Religious Education from 1971-77.… MORE >