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The Hidden Power Dynamics Inside Everyday Conflict: Leaders, Educators and Families author.

The Hidden Power Dynamics Inside Everyday Conflict: Leaders, Educators and Families

Power dynamics rarely announce themselves directly in conflict. Instead, they quietly shape who speaks, who withdraws, who apologizes first, and...

By Rahel Tesfaye
Navigating the Fog of Indirect Conflict: Practical Tools for Clarity and Prevention author.

Navigating the Fog of Indirect Conflict: Practical Tools for Clarity and Prevention

Being a conflict resolution specialist is, at least in my experience, a 24‑hour job. At first, people don’t fully understand...

By Alessandra Sgubini
What Are We Learning About the Effects of AI in Mediation – 3 Tips for Protecting Our Parties author.

What Are We Learning About the Effects of AI in Mediation – 3 Tips for Protecting Our Parties

https://youtu.be/jhz_QnI2ZNk?si=56hZZbugqSaoJZqq Dr. Clare Fowler, Exec VP at ODR.com‍ ‍and Mediate.com, here presents on: "What Are We Learning About the Effects...

By Clare Fowler
The Problem of Problematizing author.

The Problem of Problematizing

In conflict engagement, it starts with a single exchange. “We should focus on solutions.” “I have a problem with that.”...

By John Potter
The 2 am Problem: What AI Can and Can’t Do for Divorcing Co-Parents author.

The 2 am Problem: What AI Can and Can’t Do for Divorcing Co-Parents

Written in consultation with Claude.ai There is a man I read about years ago — a refugee living just steps...

By Laura Lorber
The Disciplined Humanity of Eye Contact in Conflict Engagement author.

The Disciplined Humanity of Eye Contact in Conflict Engagement

In conflict, people often remember how they were looked at long after they forget the exact words that were spoken....

By John Potter
When Mediators Don’t Walk Our Talk: The Gap Between Knowing Better and Doing Better author.

When Mediators Don’t Walk Our Talk: The Gap Between Knowing Better and Doing Better

The setup Succession was never just a TV show about which Roy child would inherit the corner office. It was...

By Sam Imperati
Dynamics of the Mediation Opening Phase: Kicking Things Off in a Positive Direction author.

Dynamics of the Mediation Opening Phase: Kicking Things Off in a Positive Direction

The opening phase of a mediation session represents one of the most critical, psychologically complex, and strategically demanding junctures in...

By Ed Timken
Combatting Overconfidence Bias in Mediation author.

Combatting Overconfidence Bias in Mediation

Overconfidence bias is one of the most common—and dangerous—psychological hurdles you will face in mediation. Overconfidence bias is a cognitive...

By Ed Timken
The Mediator’s Toolkit: Why Normalizing, Mutualizing, and Summarizing are the Bedrocks of Family Resolution author.

The Mediator’s Toolkit: Why Normalizing, Mutualizing, and Summarizing are the Bedrocks of Family Resolution

In the high-stakes arena of family mediation, we aren't just managing schedules or dividing assets; we are navigating the wreckage...

By Ed Timken
Navigating the Labyrinth of Impasse: Psychological, Procedural and Substantive Strategies in Modern Mediation author.

Navigating the Labyrinth of Impasse: Psychological, Procedural and Substantive Strategies in Modern Mediation

The phenomenon of impasse in mediation represents more than a mere cessation of dialogue; it is a critical juncture where...

By Ed Timken
Caucus: A Blessing and a Curse in Mediation author.

Caucus: A Blessing and a Curse in Mediation

Caucus is often treated as the backbone of modern mediation. It is the go-to move when things stall, emotions rise,...

By Jason Hisey
Mediation as an Interactive Decision-Making Process author.

Mediation as an Interactive Decision-Making Process

Benevolence in the UHT Recovery Path Subject: Benefits Restoration Operation (Hersteloperatie Toeslagen) / Mediation in the public sector 1. Introduction In...

By Ton Westerduin
The Mediation Room: A Space for Professional Reflection and Dialogue author.

The Mediation Room: A Space for Professional Reflection and Dialogue

Mediation is, by its nature, a reflective profession. It asks practitioners to hold space for others, to manage complexity, and...

By Stuart Hanson
Online Dispute Resolution, AI, and Access to Family Law Justice author.

Online Dispute Resolution, AI, and Access to Family Law Justice

We have expressed concern with Access to Justice in Family Law for years; since the turn of the century.  ...

By Jim Williams
The Machine in the Mirror: Is AI the New Collective Unconscious? author.

The Machine in the Mirror: Is AI the New Collective Unconscious?

Editorial Note: The following materials were developed by Jim Melamed and John Helie, co-founders of Mediate.com in 1996. John and...

By John Helie, Jim Melamed
Apology and Forgiveness author.

Apology and Forgiveness

Recently on Forgiveness Sunday I thought about how easily we often ask for forgiveness where it's a small thing and...

By Iryna Fedorych
Finding Pathways through Polarizing Times author.

Finding Pathways through Polarizing Times

This article first appeared at the end of 2024 at CBI.org. When people are in conflict over high-profile public issues, it...

By Ryan Golten
The Power of Yes/No: When Closed-Ended Questions Enhance Mediation author.

The Power of Yes/No: When Closed-Ended Questions Enhance Mediation

The value of both open-ended and closed-ended questions in mediation lies in their complementary roles. While open-ended questions dominate mediation...

By Kim Faircloth
Sample Inquiry of ChatGPT About Parenting Time Conflict author.

Sample Inquiry of ChatGPT About Parenting Time Conflict

Ask ChatGPT About Parenting Time Conflict Dad has been late in returning his 12 year old son to mom (divorced)...

By Jim Melamed
Review of David Hoffman’s Book “The Art of Impasse-Breaking in Mediation: A Handbook for Mediators, Lawyers, and Other Conflict Resolvers” author.

Review of David Hoffman’s Book “The Art of Impasse-Breaking in Mediation: A Handbook for Mediators, Lawyers, and Other Conflict Resolvers”

David Hoffman is a very highly regarded US mediator and an equally authoritative Harvard academic, whose writing about mediation and...

By John Sturrock
Child Inclusive Mediation is Voice, Not Choice author.

Child Inclusive Mediation is Voice, Not Choice

Why Hearing the Child Without Harm Requires Safeguarding, Child Development Literacy and Real Containment A note on child inclusive practice...

By Katy Harris
THE MISSING MIDDLE: Why Preventive Mediation Is the Emotional Vaccine Families Need Today author.

THE MISSING MIDDLE: Why Preventive Mediation Is the Emotional Vaccine Families Need Today

The Missing Chair at the Table In almost every mediation I lead, there comes a moment when someone finally breathes...

By Yanine Simpser
Could AI Replace Mediators? author.

Could AI Replace Mediators?

Originally published in The Scotsman The founder of a site where AI models communicate with one another compared them to...

By John Sturrock
Baruch Bush: 1948 – 2026 author.

Baruch Bush: 1948 – 2026

With profound sadness, the global community of mediation scholars, legal practitioners, students, and friends mourns the passing of Professor Robert...

By Robert Baruch Bush, Jim Melamed
Mediation, Neutrality, Tyranny, and Resistance (Revised) author.

Mediation, Neutrality, Tyranny, and Resistance (Revised)

“The death of human empathy is one of the earliest and most telling signs of a culture about to fall...

By Kenneth Cloke
The Duck Springs Defiance – The Next ‘68: Cycles of History and a “What’s Coming” Scenario author.

The Duck Springs Defiance – The Next ‘68: Cycles of History and a “What’s Coming” Scenario

It gives me great pride and happiness to tell you about the release of my long gestating book "The Duck Springs...

By Peter Adler
Introducing Mediator Dojo author.

Introducing Mediator Dojo

Mediator Dojo is here, and it marks a new chapter for our Mediate.com Member community. For decades, Mediate.com has served...

By Josh Remis, Colin Rule, Clare Fowler, Jim Melamed
A New Mediator’s Perspective: Why This Work Matters More Than Ever author.

A New Mediator’s Perspective: Why This Work Matters More Than Ever

I came to mediation with curiosity. I stayed because of conviction.  What began as an interest in alternative dispute resolution...

By Jason Hisey
Moral Emptiness, Sexual Offending, and Neutrality in Mediation: Reflections from Theatre and Practice author.

Moral Emptiness, Sexual Offending, and Neutrality in Mediation: Reflections from Theatre and Practice

This essay examines the intersection of sexual offending, moral absence, and professional neutrality through the lens of both theatrical performance and real-world...

By Ron Berglas

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