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The Mediator’s Edge: Experience, Intuition, and the Skills That Endure with Lawrence Kolin on the Practice Playbook Podcast #551 author.
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The Mediator’s Edge: Experience, Intuition, and the Skills That Endure with Lawrence Kolin on the Practice Playbook Podcast #551

In a profession increasingly shaped by AI, virtual platforms, and rapid technological change, it is easy to believe that success...

By Susan Guthrie
Mediate.com Podcast: Building BridgeGrades.org, a Rotten Tomatoes for Political Collaboration author.
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Mediate.com Podcast: Building BridgeGrades.org, a Rotten Tomatoes for Political Collaboration

In this episode Colin interviews Brad Porteus, founder of BridgeGrades.org, a report card for Congress that grades politicians on how...

By Colin Rule
Guided Mediation: A Method for Structuring Consensus in Modern Conflict Engagement author.
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Guided Mediation: A Method for Structuring Consensus in Modern Conflict Engagement

In contemporary conflict, ranging from organizational disputes to community tensions and multi-stakeholder policy disagreements, constituents and stakeholders often disagree not...

By Rahel Tesfaye, John Potter
THE MISSING MIDDLE: Why Preventive Mediation Is the Emotional Vaccine Families Need Today author.
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THE MISSING MIDDLE: Why Preventive Mediation Is the Emotional Vaccine Families Need Today

The Missing Chair at the Table In almost every mediation I lead, there comes a moment when someone finally breathes...

By Yanine Simpser
Seven Keys to Unlock Mediation’s Golden Age  – Table of Contents – Now with Videos & AI Podcasts author.
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Seven Keys to Unlock Mediation’s Golden Age – Table of Contents – Now with Videos & AI Podcasts

Seven Keys to Unlock Mediation's Future Table of Contents   Mediate.com is proud to publish the "Seven Keys to Unlock Mediation’s...

By Michael Leathes, Manon Schonewille, Clare Fowler, Jim Melamed
The 3 Myths About AI That Are Costing You Clients author.
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The 3 Myths About AI That Are Costing You Clients

AI is not a trend. It is a skill. And the professionals who are learning to use it wisely are...

By Susan Guthrie
ABA Formal Opinion 518: Lawyer-Mediator Duties and Misrepresentation – Summary, Podcast, Briefing Document and PDF author.
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ABA Formal Opinion 518: Lawyer-Mediator Duties and Misrepresentation – Summary, Podcast, Briefing Document and PDF

Screenshot Watch video Interview with Jeff Kichaven & Ellen Waldman:ABA Ethics Opinion 518: Dawn of a Golden Age for Mediation?...

By Jim Melamed
Toward a New Generation of Mediators author.
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Toward a New Generation of Mediators

Since 2010, I’ve had the privilege of serving as a court-approved family and divorce mediator in Oklahoma. I love being...

By Rob Keiter
Optimizing Mediation:  A Fascinating Journey author.
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Optimizing Mediation: A Fascinating Journey

Table of Contents Next OVERVIEW OF THE MEDIATION PROCES An Introduction to MediationA Fascinating Journey If we want to make...

By Jim Melamed
Optimizing Mediation: Mediation Myth Busters author.
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Optimizing Mediation: Mediation Myth Busters

Table of Contents Next This “Myth Busters” article was written and issued in 2025 jointly by the American Arbitration Association...

By Jim Melamed
Optimizing Mediation: Perception and Parts author.
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Optimizing Mediation: Perception and Parts

Table of Contents Next WORKING WITH PARTICIPANTS IN MEDIATION Perception and Parts Seeking to become an effective mediator is both...

By Jim Melamed
Optimizing Mediation:  Baby Steps and Strategic Mediation author.
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Optimizing Mediation: Baby Steps and Strategic Mediation

Table of Contents Next Baby Steps and Strategic Mediation Participants do not need to win, they are just unwilling to...

By Jim Melamed
Optimizing Mediation: Less is More & Normative Stories author.
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Optimizing Mediation: Less is More & Normative Stories

Table of Contents Next Less is More & Normative Stories Just as an effective mediator continually seeks to take the...

By Jim Melamed
Optimizing Mediation: The Goals of Your Mediation author.
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Optimizing Mediation: The Goals of Your Mediation

Table of Contents Next The Goals for Your Mediation Fairness and Reasonableness?  Empowerment and Recognition? Our plans often miscarry because...

By Jim Melamed
Mastering Mediation: Beyond the Session Itself author.
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Mastering Mediation: Beyond the Session Itself

Mediation has become an indispensable tool in modern legal practice, offering a pathway to dispute resolution that can be more...

By Ed Timken, John Siffert
What Has Happened to Value Processes? When Is It Time to End a Mediation? author.
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What Has Happened to Value Processes? When Is It Time to End a Mediation?

Terminating a mediation when it no longer serves the interests of the participants does not equal failure. In whose best...

By Louise R. Zito
Optimizing Mediation: “Maximizing Mediation” as a Model author.
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Optimizing Mediation: “Maximizing Mediation” as a Model

Table of Contents Next Maximizing Mediation as a Model There is no single “right way” to mediate. Mediation practices vary...

By Jim Melamed
The Attention Economy and Its Impact on Dispute Resolution author.
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The Attention Economy and Its Impact on Dispute Resolution

What is the attention economy? Think of attention as a currency. Not the kind you tuck into a wallet, but...

By Robert Bergman
Optimizing Mediation: Working with Participants’ Resource States author.
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Optimizing Mediation: Working with Participants’ Resource States

Table of Contents Next Working with Participants’ Resource States Question: How do mediation participants come to us? At their best?...

By Jim Melamed
Opportunistic Distortions of Mediation author.
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Opportunistic Distortions of Mediation

We all know that there are many variations of mediation that nonetheless represent legitimate examples of the process. But there...

By Nancy Welsh
Optimizing Mediation: Building Rapport author.
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Optimizing Mediation: Building Rapport

Table of Contents Next Building Rapport in Mediation Building Rapport Matching, Pacing, and Leading If asked to name the three...

By Jim Melamed
Optimizing Mediation: Outcome and Evidence Questioning author.
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Optimizing Mediation: Outcome and Evidence Questioning

Table of Contents Next How do you want it to be? Jerry Weinberg Outcome and Evidence Questioning Helping participants reach...

By Jim Melamed
Optimizing Mediation: De-positioning to Ultimate Positive Intention author.
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Optimizing Mediation: De-positioning to Ultimate Positive Intention

Table of Contents Next Ultimately, there is positive intention behind all behavior. Richard Bandler and John Grinder De-positioning to Ultimate...

By Jim Melamed
Strategies to Optimize Mediation Outcomes with Steven Bierman author.
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Strategies to Optimize Mediation Outcomes with Steven Bierman

Republished with permission by: Will Work For Food Steven Bierman, independent arbitrator and mediator and formerly a leader of Sidley Austin...

By Jeff Kichaven, Natalie J. Armstrong-Motin, Jean Lawler, David Shraga
Optimizing Mediation: Strategic Questioning author.
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Optimizing Mediation: Strategic Questioning

Table of Contents Next Strategic Questioning A mediator’s questions are never random. They are strategic tools—purposefully crafted to advance rapport,...

By Jim Melamed
Optimizing Mediation: An Interest-Based Problem-Solving Model author.
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Optimizing Mediation: An Interest-Based Problem-Solving Model

Table of Contents Next An Interest-Based Problem-Solving Model Once the administrative aspects of mediation have been completed, the mediator can...

By Jim Melamed
A Comprehensive Analysis of Mediator Ethics: A Review of Foundational Principles and Jurisdictional Rules in New York and Florida author.
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A Comprehensive Analysis of Mediator Ethics: A Review of Foundational Principles and Jurisdictional Rules in New York and Florida

Abstract The integrity of alternative dispute resolution hinges on a robust and enforceable ethical framework. This report provides a detailed...

By Ed Timken
Optimizing Mediation: Hypothesis Generation and Testing author.
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Optimizing Mediation: Hypothesis Generation and Testing

Table of Contents Next Hypothesis Generation and Testing Wonder rather than doubt or certainty is the root of knowledge. Abraham Joshua...

By Jim Melamed
Mediate.com Podcast: A Mediation Model for Self Represented Parties with Susan Hansen, Casey Holtz, and Michael Dwyer author.
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Mediate.com Podcast: A Mediation Model for Self Represented Parties with Susan Hansen, Casey Holtz, and Michael Dwyer

In this episode, Colin Rule interviews Susan Hansen, Casey Holtz, and Michael Dwyer about their chapter in the book Family Dispute Resolution: Process and Practice....

By Colin Rule, Susan Hansen, Casey Holtz, Michael Dwyer
Managing Conflict Mindfully – Don’t Believe Everything You Think author.
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Managing Conflict Mindfully – Don’t Believe Everything You Think

Republished with permission by: Will Work For Food Leonard Riskin's presentation, "Managing Conflict Mindfully - Don't Believe Everything You Think," introduces his...

By Leonard Riskin, Jeff Kichaven, Natalie J. Armstrong-Motin, David Shraga, Jean Lawler

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