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A Brave New World: Integrating AI into Family Mediation – Video Now Available! author.

A Brave New World: Integrating AI into Family Mediation – Video Now Available!

The slide presentation utilized by Jim Melamed for his 2-hour workshop "A Brave New World - Integrating AI into Family...

By Jim Melamed
The 2 am Problem: What AI Can and Can’t Do for Divorcing Co-Parents author.

The 2 am Problem: What AI Can and Can’t Do for Divorcing Co-Parents

Written in consultation with Claude.ai There is a man I read about years ago — a refugee living just steps...

By Laura Lorber
From Separate Rooms to Resolution: Managing a High-Conflict Divorce Mediation author.

From Separate Rooms to Resolution: Managing a High-Conflict Divorce Mediation

Some mediations never make it to a joint session. This one started in caucus and, against the odds, came full...

By Jason Hisey
Sample Inquiry of ChatGPT About Parenting Time Conflict author.

Sample Inquiry of ChatGPT About Parenting Time Conflict

Ask ChatGPT About Parenting Time Conflict Dad has been late in returning his 12 year old son to mom (divorced)...

By Jim Melamed
Child Inclusive Mediation is Voice, Not Choice author.

Child Inclusive Mediation is Voice, Not Choice

Why Hearing the Child Without Harm Requires Safeguarding, Child Development Literacy and Real Containment A note on child inclusive practice...

By Katy Harris
THE MISSING MIDDLE: Why Preventive Mediation Is the Emotional Vaccine Families Need Today author.

THE MISSING MIDDLE: Why Preventive Mediation Is the Emotional Vaccine Families Need Today

The Missing Chair at the Table In almost every mediation I lead, there comes a moment when someone finally breathes...

By Yanine Simpser
Supporting Self-Represented Spouses in Family Mediation author.

Supporting Self-Represented Spouses in Family Mediation

Over the past decade, my family mediation practice in Victoria, BC has evolved in response to a clear and consistent...

By Amy Robertson
DARVO: Narrative and Counter-Narrative in Conflict Escalation author.

DARVO: Narrative and Counter-Narrative in Conflict Escalation

DARVO stands for Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender. It is a recognizable rhetorical sequence in modern conflict engagement...

By John Potter
Why Trust and Mediator Fit Matter in Family Mediation author.

Why Trust and Mediator Fit Matter in Family Mediation

When people begin looking for a family mediator, they often focus on logistics: availability, cost, or whether the mediation can...

By Amy Robertson
The Creative Solution in Family Mediation by Chip Rose author.

The Creative Solution in Family Mediation by Chip Rose

The Creative Solution in Family Mediation is a collection of articles written by Chip Rose as a contributor to The...

By Chip Rose
Preparing Parties for Productive Family Mediation author.

Preparing Parties for Productive Family Mediation

Using Pre-Mediation Support to Strengthen Interest-Based Outcomes Family mediators, particularly those working with self-represented parties, understand that the success of...

By Tracy Callahan
From Legal Generalities to Tailored Realities: Using Temperament to Build Durable Co-Parenting Plans author.

From Legal Generalities to Tailored Realities: Using Temperament to Build Durable Co-Parenting Plans

In family mediation—whether navigating custody, dependency, or guardianship—we often hide behind the phrase “Best Interests of the Child.” While it...

By Laura Lorber
Looking Back at 2025: Changing Trends in Mediation Clientele author.

Looking Back at 2025: Changing Trends in Mediation Clientele

Each year at the Centre for Mediation and Dispute Resolution, we look back at our client population, seeking to detect...

By Dr. Lynne C. Halem
“I’m Sorry I Ever Met you; I Wish I Had Never Laid Eyes on You.”  author.

“I’m Sorry I Ever Met you; I Wish I Had Never Laid Eyes on You.” 

It’s easy for mediators to underestimate how terrifying mediation can be for participants, especially if they are unrepresented. We are trained to be calm, centered,...

By Nancy Shuger
A Guide To Creative Christmas Plans For Divorced Parents author.

A Guide To Creative Christmas Plans For Divorced Parents

Holiday traditions have created happy family memories. Stockings hung on the chimney with care, the smell of hot chocolate in...

By Michael Aurit
Optimizing Online Mediation:  Balancing Automation, AI & the Human Touch author.

Optimizing Online Mediation: Balancing Automation, AI & the Human Touch

Summary: This video captures a roundtable discussion featuring Jim Melamed, a pioneer in online dispute resolution (ODR). The discussion centers...

By Jim Melamed
From Pain to Purpose: Why Child-Centered Reform Can’t Wait author.

From Pain to Purpose: Why Child-Centered Reform Can’t Wait

The moment I truly understood conflict wasn’t in a training room, it was in my own home. Years of studying...

By Katy Harris
Rediscovering Light: What Helen Keller Teaches Us About Seeing Through Conflict author.

Rediscovering Light: What Helen Keller Teaches Us About Seeing Through Conflict

Applying the SPIRE model of wholebeing to healing and mediation When a marriage ends, it can feel as though the...

By Yanine Simpser
The Oprah Effect: Insights from Behind the Scenes on The Practice Playbook Podcast author.

The Oprah Effect: Insights from Behind the Scenes on The Practice Playbook Podcast

In this special solo episode, Susan shares behind-the-scenes lessons from her appearance on The Oprah Podcast. Discover how years of preparation...

By Susan Guthrie
The Mediate.com Story: 2025 Standards for Family Mediation & Masic S author.

The Mediate.com Story: 2025 Standards for Family Mediation & Masic S

Table of Contents Next Model Standards for Family and Divorce Mediation (2025 Update)and Masic-S The Association of Family and Conciliation Courts (AFCC)...

By Jim Melamed
Mindful Self-Compassion and the Mediator author.

Mindful Self-Compassion and the Mediator

These days, we often hear the words "mindfulness" and "self-compassion." We hear them so often that it is easy to...

By Louise R. Zito, Beth Karassik
Optimizing Mediation: Complete List of Topics from ‘Mediating Divorce Agreement” author.

Optimizing Mediation: Complete List of Topics from ‘Mediating Divorce Agreement”

Table of Contents Next Complete List of Topics from "Mediating Divorce Agreement" “Mediating Divorce Agreement” is one of many recorded...

By Jim Melamed
Introducing Mediate.info! author.

Introducing Mediate.info!

Mediate.info is your trusted source for understanding and navigating the world of conflict resolution. Whether you’re dealing with a family disagreement,...

By Colin Rule, Clare Fowler, Jim Melamed
Model Standards for Family and Divorce Mediation (2025 Update) author.

Model Standards for Family and Divorce Mediation (2025 Update)

The Association of Family and Conciliation Courts and the ABA Section of Family Law are proud to share these newly updated 2025 Model Standards...

By Jim Melamed
For Parents Who Are Divorcing: What About Nesting? author.

For Parents Who Are Divorcing: What About Nesting?

Separating and divorcing parents spend much time worrying. They worry about how and when they will separate; they worry if...

By Dr. Lynne C. Halem
Mediate.com Podcast: Divorce Coaching and Parenting Coordination with Anne-Marie Cade author.

Mediate.com Podcast: Divorce Coaching and Parenting Coordination with Anne-Marie Cade

In this episode of the Mediate.com Podcast, Colin Rule interviews Anne-Marie Cade, an award winning Lawyer, Mediator, Family Dispute Resolution...

By Anne-Marie Cade, Colin Rule
The Top 3 Questions People Ask a Family Mediator at a Cocktail Party author.

The Top 3 Questions People Ask a Family Mediator at a Cocktail Party

Some people, when they find out what I do for a living, start looking for the nearest exit—almost as if...

By Amy Robertson
The Distinctions Between Couples Mediation and Couples Therapy author.

The Distinctions Between Couples Mediation and Couples Therapy

Summary This article distinguishes between couples mediation and couples therapy, highlighting their unique objectives and methodologies. Couples mediation focuses on...

By Nadia Delshad
Mediate.com Podcast #50: Learning about the Safe & Together Model, with David Mandel author.

Mediate.com Podcast #50: Learning about the Safe & Together Model, with David Mandel

In this episode, Colin Rule interviews David Mandel, MA, LPC, the creator of the Safe & Together Model, a transformational...

By David Mandel, Colin Rule
Mediation Stories – Zumba the Hero author.

Mediation Stories – Zumba the Hero

Both parties insisted that the dispute between them be mediated by: a Telugu-speaking mediator, a pet-loving mediator, and (more specifically,...

By Sarathi Susheela

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