There are two kinds of “avoiding” to keep in mind: good avoiding and bad avoiding. Good avoiding is when you...
By Ralph Kilmann
How did you learn to turn your mistakes into stories? This was the thoughtful question Alesia Grace Thompson asked me...
By Lorraine Segal
Join special guest Ankur Delight and Laura May as we review Amanda Ripley's book, "High Conflict." Book blurb: New York...
By Laura May
The Creative Solution Table of Contents Summary: This chapter by Chip Rose, an experienced divorce mediator, advocates for a two-phase...
By Chip Rose
Divorce is widely accepted as one of the most stressful life events you can go through, whether you’re the one...
By Dakota Murphey
Set Effective Boundaries for Challenging Behavior Without Writing Anyone Off (And Practice Self-Care) - Recorded Tuesday, May 14, 2024 https://vimeo.com/946441262...
By Clare Fowler, Dan Berstein
Summary: This article highlights the detrimental effects of unresolved workplace conflicts. It underscores how failing to address conflicts can negatively...
By Debra Dupree
In this course, experienced mediator Jim Melamed shares his favorite techniques and strategies to help participants through the mediation process....
By Jim Melamed
The purpose of an apology is not to justify yourself. It is not what you want to say. It is...
By Malcolm McGuire, John Potter
Maximizing Conference Opportunities for Branding and Marketing In this episode of the Make Money Mediating podcast, host Susan Guthrie, a...
By Susan Guthrie
Sometimes when I am working with couples in conflict, I think, “Oh, they care about each other so much, it’s...
By Joy Rosenthal
The Creative Solution Table of Contents Summary In this chapter, Chip Rose discusses his approach to family mediation, emphasizing the...
By Chip Rose
Introduction Mediation, like negotiation, is an art form. It requires a delicate balance of skillful strategy, empathy, and communication expertise....
By Carmen Reyes Wolfe
The Creative Solution Table of Contents Summary: This chapter discusses challenges faced during mediation sessions. Chip describes several scenarios, including...
By Chip Rose
Executive Director Susan Yates has been chosen to receive the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution's D'Alemberte Raven Award....
By Susan Yates, Clare Fowler
I spoke with someone recently who was looking for a conflict coach for a colleague of hers. I knew pretty...
By Lorraine Segal
In mediation, each case is a unique human symphony. The mediator, not merely a facilitator, transcends to maestro, orchestrating resolution....
By Yanine Simpser
This question comes up from time to time, especially during group training and classroom discussions: Which conflict mode is used...
By Ralph Kilmann
Three organizations of conflict practitioners are announcing the launch of a singularly remarkable project to support family mediators in Ukraine....
By Michael Lang
In September 2016, Wells Fargo, a major financial institution of the US, fired over 5000 employees for misconduct, and issued...
By Alia Ismail
The Creative Solution Table of Contents Summary: Chip Rose's writing emphasizes the crucial role of word choice in mediation, particularly in resolving divorce cases....
By Chip Rose
Where peace is lost to conflict, how can we find it? Drawing inspiration for conflict transformation from science fiction. I often...
By Lorraine Segal
The other day, I opened one of the French doors in our house to let the dog outside where he...
By Phyllis Pollack
In this episode of the ICODR podcast Ian speaks with Dr. Sanjana Hattotuwa, pioneer in ICT for peacebuilding and citizen...
By Sanjana Hattotuwa, Ian MacDuff
Helping You Do the Best Mediation You Can is Part 2 of a two-part series presenting action research about factors affecting...
By John Lande
Is an apology necessary before you can forgive someone? Absolutely not Of course, forgiveness is a decision that only you...
By Lorraine Segal
This is a brief introduction to neurodiversity and reflection about potential applications. According to the Stanford Neurodiversity Project, neurodiversity is...
By Marco Imperiale, Tommaso Davi
Summary: This article and podcast are from a live YouTube event hosted by the Program on Negotiation at Harvard Law...
By William Ury
Impasse, an opportunity and bane to find the right keys to unlock the deadlocks. When a situation seems hopeless, hope...
By Pusshp Gupta
In social psychology, there is a cognitive bias known as “naïve realism” which “is the human tendency to believe that...
By Phyllis Pollack